I’ve always wondered about this. Could you really meet the one for you at the wrong time of either your life or theirs?
I have conflicting views about this. On one hand. I feel that if you meet the “right” person, then the time will automatically be right… otherwise, why are you meeting them? But on the other hand, I think, maybe its a test… to put your faith and patience in this new-found relationship, stand the test of time, until the time becomes “right”.
For example, you meet Mr. Right, and he is everything you ever wanted in a partner, and more… someone you never dreamed you would ever meet. But… he has a lot going on in his life, be it career, family, personal issues… and you feel like he just isn’t giving you what he could / would, should the circumstances be better. I don’t know if I believe in waiting until things get better (and then the question is, how long DO you wait??), or is it better to break it off then and there, and try again later when things are better?
The romantic side of me tells me, stay… live it out… if it is meant to be, it will be… but my logical side says, maybe there will always be “something” not right to make the timing not right.
What do you think? Please send this link to people you think can contribute… I am truly interested in hearing different points of view (as I myself am very confused). Thanks.